Friday, 27 July 2012

Life is nothing without Friendship & Love ?

Friendship........!!!!














Friendship is one of the most valuable assets that we create in our lifetime. That is why people hold friends in such high regard.
People understand the concept of friendship differently, but there is one common ground for it – it is always built on a mutual sympathy.
In some cases it is transient and finds its end eventually, while in other cases it may last for many years and grow stronger every year.
True friendship is built on trust and mutual support. Your real friend will always find time to talk and try to find solutions to the hard situations you face every day.
He/she is always there to help you and expects the same from you. Friends are psychologically comfortable with each other, and sometimes are emotionally closer than with their relatives.
You never know when you will meet a friend – you may have common interests, work or study in one field, or go through the hard situation,
which will unite you. Women are scientifically proven to seek support and sympathy in their friendship (due to higher emotionality of all females),
while men find friends with common interests and whom they may trust. Friendship between men and women can also happen,
but there are numerous hot discussions whether these relationships can be considered a friendship at all.
I guess, it is easier to make friends while you are young, or even in childhood, as there are no adult problems in life.
But of course, this is only a single opinion – each friendship differs, depending on your personality and a number of other factors.
Friendship is a very hard concept to define, but there are always feelings that go with it: sympathy and empathy,
compassion and mutual understanding, honesty and trust. It is much harder to live if you don’t have close friends.
Unfortunately, in modern complicated life it is becoming harder and harder to find your true soul mate.
But if you succeed to find one, you are really happy person.....

Over time we've developed something extraordinary,
That will last forever because we're both unordinary.
I used to think that friends were the people that you could laugh and talk to.
Now I know that, Friends will be with you every step of the way
No matter what people say
They make you happy when you are feeling down
They make you smile instead of frown.
Friends always accept your past,
Support your present
And encourage your future.
A friendship isn't an opportunity it's a sweet responsibility.

I prefer to have few true friends than having a bunch of 'fake' friends. What's 'fake' friends mean?
Fake friend is someone who will be with you during shine and leave you during rainy day.
I believe you've met some of them, don't you? Or else your life are so beautiful with all true friends around..

- Be a secret admirer of your friend.
- Treat your friends the way you want to be treated.
- Keep secrets that are told to you.
- Pay attention when your friend is talking.
- Keep your promises.
- Share things with your friend.
- Tell your friend the truth.
- Don't prove him/her wrong in public.
- Try to understand your friend.
- Pull your friend away from making mistakes.
- Try to teach & learn good things.
- Stick up for your friend.





























Love .....!!!

















Life is nothing without love; love is nothing without hope; hope is knowing you'll be there every day.
Love is so mush beautiful word on this planet and has so much importance in human beings lives.
You can see love not only in humans but also in birds, animals and fishes.
Without love animals and people become sad and can’t do their daily routine work properly.
Love is not only for young lovers and couples but love is a feeling for parents, children, brothers and sister.
To care for someone and to protect someone from difficulties is also a kind of love.
There is no restriction of love for any age group and anybody can express this feeling without any restriction.
Expressions of love are not limited to youngsters but old, teens and couples can also express their love feelings to their loved ones.
Love is not a feeling that is expressed by saying something to others but this feeling can be felt by anyone.

Well, it seems to me that the best relationships–the ones that last– are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is…suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.
A kiss upon the hand of someone you truly love, is more beautiful, and more valuable than any diamond or gem could ever be
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.

Love has,
….No cast,
….No face,
….No selfishness,
….No religion,
But Love has,
Care ?
Passion ?
Innocence ?
Bravery ?
&
Love has the Magic ?


For every beauty..
..there is an eye somewhere to see it.
For every truth..
..there is an ear somewhere to hear it.
For every love..
..there is a heart somewhere to receive it..!!!

You were my strength when I was weak,
You were my voice when I couldn’t speak,
You were my eyes when I couldn’t see,
You saw the best there was in me,
Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach,
You gave me faith bcoz you believed,
I’m everything I am, Because you loved me

I fell in love with you once . . .
And while I couldn’t let you know immediately
Eventually, in time, all was revealed.

They say that when you fall into love,
It can never last.

They say that true love grows, takes time,
But from the time I first fell in love with you,
My love has grown.

I know now that if I had the choice
To do it all over again.
I would, without a moment’s hesitation.

Yes, there may be regrets.
Yes, there may be disappointments.
Yes, there may be uncertainty.
But what is life without love?

And while I know you’re not perfect -
After all, who is?
And while there may be things about you which get to me,
I love you, despite them all.

And while I’m sure there may be others,
Considered more beautiful, more lovely, more charming,
There are none considered by me.

For you, my love, are the most lovely in spirit,
The most charming in personality,
The most beautiful person I have ever known -
And as such, I love you.

I said I fell in love with you once -
Well, that wasn’t exactly true.
Because every time you look me in the eye,
And smile that smile of yours,
That bubbles up from within your heart,
I find myself falling in love with you all over again.

No matter what has happened in my day,
No matter how I feel,
I find my heart opening to you all over again
No matter what has happened in the past,
No matter what may, or may not happen in the future,
I find myself in love.
After all, what is life without love?
And what is love without you?

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So that's why guys friendship and love both are very important things in our life so please don't live without it.....



Saturday, 14 July 2012

How to Propose Girl.... ?

Love is said to be the greatest feeling of the world. But it really hurts when it is only one sided. For a healthy love relationship it is really very important to express your love in words. Many people fail in this, they love someone very truly but as they can't express their feelings they always face failure in love. Only loving someone is not good enough unless you tell him/her about this. But the way of telling this may change your relation to love or may break the relation also. So you must take care of this, how to say,”I Love You”.

Are you nervous on how to propose to your girl? Well, don’t be........

The one thing that you should keep in mind while proposing is that girls are very sensitive and every girl are different from the other.
So make sure that your way of proposing to the girl should be unique in your own way, and should be according to the temperament of the girl.

Some of the best ideas for proposing a girl are mentioned below. Try them out and win the heart of your lady.

- Be yourself. This is the first rule that you need to get into your mind when you think of proposing a girl. Do not overdo your proposal. Keep it simple yet special and sweet.
Be who you are, and in your own special way say those three golden words.

- Another old way of proposing is going down on your knees with a red rose in your hand. Though this is an old way of proposing, this still goes down the line and is bound to impress any girl.

- Make her feel special by taking her out for a quiet romantic dinner. Prepare well and have her favorite dishes ordered for the two of you.
Have her favorite music playing in the background and find a nice romantic moment to propose her. She will definitely be moved by the effort that you would have taken for arranging the special dinner.

- You can get a banner prepared with the word I Love You and have it displayed outside her house or in the workplace.
It is advised that you do not use her real name on the banner, but use the endearment that you generally use to call her.

- Take her to the place where you met each other for the first time. Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. It will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for lifetime.

- If it is possible for you and you can afford it, have your proposal written on the sky. You can contact the skywriting company and have it arranged when the two of you are together.

- You can make arrangement for asking your neighbors to put off their lights and have the windows lit up in the words I Love You. Take her to the balcony and open her eyes when everything is set. She will definitely love this.

- You can drive to the beach in the evening and with some romantic soft music playing. Just as the sun is going down whisper the three words that she is longing to hear in her ears. This will definitely make her melt.

- If both of you are the adventurous kinds, then you can plan an early morning trek to a nearby place, and when the sun is rising go on your knees and propose her on top of the summit.

- If you want to make it dramatic and funny, then you can have a water gun and hold it out on her and say you are under arrest, and when she is all shocked and panicky then say for stealing my heart and say out I Love You.

you can definitely win her heart. So pull up your sleeves and walk up to her and say out what you have in your heart.

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POETRY
if you are good in poetry write a sweet poem for her, record it for her and when you meet her play the record and then see her melting and then ask her
the question and even you are not that good in poetry then also a sing a beautiful and romantic song which show your feelings but i personally feel that poem is a better option
and love makes everyone a good poet so just try once may be you create a good one.

Flowers are always lovers best friends
give her a bouquet of red roses when she meets you and combine it with any other idea or send flowers at her place, starting from a single rose then just increasing the size of bouquets with Romantic note in each describing what she is to you and then the sweet promises of yours.
And then come up with one bouquet and the ring yourself and ask the question.


Plan your date
take her for a nice movie ,go for a drive .take her to a romantic dinner.
spend the whole day with her.pay attention to what she does.girls notice small things so show her small signs of your care the whole day.be gentle make that whole day special . when the sun is going to set take her to the place you both love to be at or where you met first time and ask her the question while bending on your knees.

Love Letter/Greeting:
old conventional method but still very effective write her a beautiful caligraphed ....
Write all your memories,the time you have spent together,how is she so special.dont go filmy while writing,be genuine and slowly arrive to your point. a hand made greeting card  with all these things is also a good option

If she is your very good or may be old friend then you must be having her pics
or your mutual friends might be having, collect them and then create a video of her photos,memories and all your sweet times spent together with a beautiful romantic
song in the background and pop the question at the end of the video and make her watch that video when she is with you.

if you are afraid to ask her face to face try this amazing and unique thing out.
at the night time get her doorstep covered with rose petals , beautiful candles , balloons and a teddy-bear at the center . when these things are all set. Just give her a phone call and ask her to come out of the house or may be look outside the balcony and just surprise her and ask her your magical question. you can also replace teddy bear with a ring.

Romantic Dinner:
Take her for dinner at her favorite place. Order what she likes, with beautiful music being played in the background , propose her using simple lines while giving her a ring.


Looooooooooooooooooooong Drive:
just take her to a long drive play light music in a car . long drive is one of the best way to spend time with her, laugh with her and spend quality time with her and near about at the end of  the journey you can propose her. Or what you can do during a journey just tell her what kind of girl you want and tell her that you like some one and give her the description of herself only , she will automatically understand and at the end you can propose her.

Camp Fire:
if you can go on a weekend somewhere with her and your friends or a college trip or something. spend some time with her. at some romantic location bend on your knees and ask the question or may be at the campfire or while boating when sun is setting and you and your love are in the boat..

Place with a colourful fountain:
At night take her to a garden with a fountain. cover the vicinity with heart shaped balloons and candles. fountain will add the charm in the situation and then propose the girl. From this i just want to mention that propose her at some romantic and calm place where both are alone and in a mood of romance..


But my style is different it's more romantic and touchy ........

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I propose to you my love
that eye desire to kiss you
each and every morning upon arising

I propose to you my sweet
that eye wish to feed upon you
each and every morning my Beloved

I propose to you my love
that eye desire to play with you
silentlee every night of delight

I propose to you my sweet
to honor you with all of my being
and to appreciate your way of seeing.

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The moment I opened my heart and let you in
I saw this great love starting to begin.
I opened my eyes to a vision of you
I hope, I pray your feelings are true.
I have loved and I have paid the cost
And I have felt the pain of the love I lost.
But, now, I think I have truly found
An Angel who walks upon the ground.
You go beyond all limits for me
Just to show your love endlessly.
I could search my whole life through
And never find another ‘you’.
You are so special that I wanted you to know
I truly, completely love you so...... 

Tuesday, 10 July 2012

What is Love ? & Relationship...

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud.
It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life.
Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.
Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence.
It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt.
The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child.
The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.
A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love.
Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person.
If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in
us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending.
It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.
The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection.
It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each
different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity.
But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless.
It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships.
The history of our world has witnessed many such events. But love is not responsible for that.
It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love.
But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love,
just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause.
It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion.
Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.
Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture.
Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away.
We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship.
Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey.
We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need.
And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

if u love some one so u need to tell her. u need to show her or explain her other wise u r going to lose her.....
so my funda is some people is very shy to tell for that guys need to show her or explain in diffrent way but every thing in proper way.
because every one say love have so many laguage so u need to desside wich laguage u want?


Love is indeed a complicated subject and to really come to terms with fully I think it can actually be a matter of truly knowing yourself and loving yourself first.
When you can do that, then you will be ready to love another, and you will also be able to distinguish love from other profound emotions.
So what exactly is the Meaning of Love? It can be best described as a very strong feeling that is deep down in the pit of your stomach.
You experience this feeling when you are around that special somebody or when you happen to be thinking about them.
These strong feelings can be of affection, attraction and enjoyment. In a way, it is kind of like all three of these feelings rolled up into one super emotion.
Many people feel extremely wonderful when they experience this.
When you are truly in love, you will know it. Firstly you will have a solid and honest love for yourself. This is paramount. Secondly you will feel extremely comfortable around this person, almost to the point of losing all of your inhibitions. Thirdly you will feel a strong attraction to that person and you will want to be near and close to them all the time. And lastly you will be super sensitive to their feelings, desires, and needs. When you experience all of this, you will have found true love at last.
Once you understand the Meaning of Love then you can truly harness its power. This is when you will be ready to get the most out of life and be ready to receive everything great that is coming your way. When you truly love another person then you will feel things that only a handful of people on this planet ever experience. Isn’t that a great thought? When it really comes down to it, the Meaning of Love can mean different things to different people. We all have unique romantic situations and you must work on doing what is best for you. And seriously, take heed to what I said before…you must first learn to love yourself. That is the key.
I don’t see the world the way everyone else does, the fool’s heart never does.
I see colors and sounds and dreams and hopes and fears and whispers in the dark and words that don’t need spoken and
moments that last a lifetime and eternities that scamper fleetly by. You might not see what I see but my world is as real and true
and happy and sad and joyful and painful as any part of the world you choose to accept as your reality.
No I’m not lost in my own little world, I just choose to share the way I see things with those I love, these are not lies nor am I blind.
I choose to see the REAL over the reality. I can see more in your eyes and your smile than a worldly man can see in your lifetime.
I am nothing more nor nothing less than … me....

Real relationship doesn't mean No Fight.... We fight but after that, we forgive each other.... and start loving each other more than before...!!!
True love is like dream some time ..... but if u want experiance that u need to test it some time ... so u can realize is it tru one or time pass one.!!!

LOve is being happy for the other person
when they are happy
being sad for the person
when they are sad
being together in good times
and being together in bad times
Love is the source of strength

LOve is
being honest with yourself at all times
being honest with the other person at all times
telling, listening, respecting the truth
and never pretending
Love is the source of reality

LOve is
an understanding so complete that
you feel as if you are a part
of the other person
accepting the other person
just the way they are
and not trying to change them
to be something else
Love is the source of unity

LOve is
the freedom to pursue your own desires
while sharing your experiences
with the other person
the growth of one individual alongside of
and together with the growth
of another individual
Love is the source of success

LOve is
the excitement of planning things together
the excitement of doing things together
Love is the source of the future

LOve is
the fury of the storm
the calm in the rainbow
Love is the source of passion

LOve is
giving and taking in a daily situation
being patient with each other's
needs and desires
Love is the source of sharing

LOve is
knowing that the other person
will always be with you
regardless of what happens
missing the other person when they are away
but remaining near in heart at all times
Love is the source of security

LOve is the sOurce of life.. !

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.

Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost,
sometimes unrecognized, but in the end,
always found with no regrets, forever valued
and kept treasured......

"Judgement. Just a simple word that changes us, makes us do the wrong thing, makes us make the wrong choices, and drives us apart from the ones who we love."

We were given:
Two hands to hold.
Two legs to walk.
Two eyes to see.
Two ears to listen.
But why only one heart?
Because the other was given to you for me.

If a kiss was a raindrop, I would send you a shower, if a hug was a second, I would send you an hour, if a smile was water, I would send you the sea, if you need love, I would send you me…

This line for some one "1st time i saw u i was scared 2 touch u, 1st time i touched u i was scared 2 kiss u, 1st time i kiss u i was scared to luv u, but now dat i luv u im scared 2 lose u! "

Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith
is also of little love.

What is love, Does anyone know, Is it what twinkles between our toes, Can we not see it with our own eyes, Can we not hear its whisper with our own ears,
Can we not touch it with our own skin, No we can not, Because true love comes from you... Love is the power given by God to u to bind the hearts together n even the
feeling of pain in love is unexplainable n i think who is loved or love someone always felt the sweetness of pain n i think everyone in this world should go for love its really a
feeling to be in heaven where everything is possible n the power u gain can do miracles. love is unexplainable u can feel it n it cannot be hold inside for a long n it surely spread in one or the other form.

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Love - a word so pure so beautiful. A feeling that changes you, and perhaps your whole life.

Love is all a person needs , love is all every one starve for. Are you feeling the same? have you found that special girl that makes your world worth living and whom you wanna tell that how much you love and and whom you wanna propose.


Love is the best and the most beautiful feeling in the world that cannot be seen or touched. Love, the most amazing thing that can happen with a person a word so true an expression so right. Love is what we all strive for. Love is what we all want to fall in.


So, Are you in love?

Have you found your Love? the girl/boy with whom you wanna spend your whole life.Your love whose hand is all you wanna hold and walk the thousand miles of your life. Your love whose smile is all you wanna live for, through whose eyes you wanna see your world.That girl/boy who is just enough reason to wake you up everyday with a smile on your face . Have you found that girl/boy?