Life is what you make it ....

The power to succeed or fail is yours alone. You alone have the responsibility to shape your life.
Nothing and no one can deny you greatness once you understand this.

What the human being calls life refers to the material body that has "life" and its counter as death, is when the body stops working. They consider that life is learning while walking on a path that you chose by your actions until your body stops.
1- Understand yourself.
2- Understand the physical world and the very other dimensions.
3- Understand the concept of energy.
4- Understand the concept of meditation, meaning and cause of action.
5- Understand that there is Physical and NON physical.

There's no one to stop you but yourself. No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you.
More powerful then all the success slogans ever written is the realization that everyone has but one boss.
That boss is you. Picture yourself vividly as winning, and that alone will contribute immeasurably to success.

In most of the times,various kinds of happenings and experiences in our life unknowing convey a
sort of lesson/learning to us. Mostly it is not possible to avoid what we don’t want/expect.
If a person is inclined to its inner truthfulness to be inspired with not only in its practical/external/social
life but also in its emotional and spiritual life, he/she can find some meaningfulness in this life by believing/feeling the  eternity of one’s inner truthfulness. I do feel your positivity in your professional life, to some extent is contributed by your  unknowing learning from such strange and happenings.

if you have not made somebody's day happier, if you've not appreciated something good that has happened to you and if you have not felt thankful to be alive, then you have wasted that day of your life on earth

Creativity is closely associated with bipolar disorder. This condition is unique . Many famous historical figures and artists have had this. Yet they have led a full life and contributed so much to the society and world at large. See, you have a gift. People with bipolar disorder are very very sensitive. Much more than ordinary people. They are able to experience emotions in a very deep and intense way. It gives them a very different perspective of the world. It is not that they lose touch with reality. But the feelings of extreme intensity are manifested in creative things. They pour their emotions into either writing or whatever field they have chosen..

One story.... it's true..

"Ek ladka hee jo sirf paise udan , enjoy karna & show off karna wo hi uska kaam tha , means (BPL) thaa
kai bar uske daddy ne use samjaya beta " Ghar Ka business hey dhyan dee uspe use agee badna tujhe hey,
but uske dimag me kya tha kisi ko nahi pata tha, wo bus apne man ki sunta tha , bus wo enjoy karna jata tha,
but kehte hey na kabhi na kabhi kahi na kahi kisi ke liye koi hota hey wese usko bhi koi milgayee usi masti ke darmiyan,
but wo dar ta tha use bol ne se ki i love u... lekin usne ek bar use bolause i love u. wo bhi ek ajee b tari ke se ...
usne gharpe use bula an suru kiya, sab se milana suru kiya, us ladki ko koi dekhe ya koi kuch kahe use wo marta , fight karta,
but suddenly some thing happen in his life very bad jo nahi hona chahey tha .... ek bar uske hi samne wo use chod ke chali gayee.... es duniya se ....
wo pura depress hogaya , apne aap ko uske liye doshi man ne laga, 2 time use ne suicide kar ne ka try kiya,
but wo bach gaya ... use yaad aye wo word jo usne kahe the use " my dear, life is must go on .... kuch esa kar jise tujh par tere daddy ko proud hoo"...
aur usne puri life change ki .... daddy ke saath jane laga wo business me mind ko divert karne laga
aur har ek dosto ko help karne laga chahey wo kisi type ki kyu naa ho.... ek bar suddenly wo chala gay out of country ....
waha jake wo study karne laga aur enjoy bhi (drink and playing guitar, and write notes, )... but wo bhula nahi tha use aur uske wo words ko aur life ko badal ne me laga gaya ,
pura pura din ,, puri puri raat wo bus job , dollar and drink ye 3 things ke piche wo bhagta raha aur, usne apni life ko aur apne aap ko badal diya tha,
log kahene lage yarr yee pehle wala wo hi full of enjoy kane wala aur show off karne wala who ye ladaka hey ya koi aur,
uske family wale bhi shock ho gaye... uske ye badlav ko dekh kar... aab uske pas out of country me ghar hey , 2 store hai, and life ko ek professional and enjoyment level pe jita hey,,
but uske life me wo nahi hey jo pehle tha , but kisi ne use badda l diya ... mera ek hi kehna hey " life me kisi ke kehne se bahut kam log hote hey jo badal jate hey..."
life ek esi ceez hey jo hume 2 rast dikhati hey ek sahi aur galat wo hume chun na hey kon se pe hum jaye,
life woo hey jise tum jese chaho wese jee sak te ho , jese bana na chaho bana sak te ho ... ek pot maker hot hey jo apne hi hatho se achee pot banata hey aur bure bhi bana sak ta hey to fir samjalo aap bhi ek pot maker ho aur life ek pot hey ... so life is what u make it of?

Life is too short, Don’t ever waste it.
Life is sweet, Take time to taste it.
Life is a journey, Find the right path.
Life is entertaining, Don’t be afraid to laugh.
Life is for good times, Make them last.
Life has it’s bad times, Put them in your past.
Life is chance, Make sure to take it.
But most importantly - Life is what you make it.

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

I am not interested....!!!

Certainly you can try to recover from that 'I'm not interested’ response. You can ask, 'Why do you say that?' (Say this gently, as though you are confused and really, really want the answer.) You can repeat back: 'Not interested?' (Again, say this gently, as though you are confused.) This sometimes gets people to start talking and explain themselves. Bottom line, however, if everyone that you speak with says, 'I'm not interested,' you're not saying anything interesting.

If you have a compelling script with stellar delivery, you will hardly ever hear the words, 'I'm not interested.' That's because you will actually be saying something interesting!

On the telephone, you have approximately 10-20 seconds to grab your prospect's attention - and if you do not do that, your call is probably over. 10-20 seconds is not a lot of time. You are not going to convey a lot of information in 10-20 seconds. Instead, what you'll convey is your energy, your confidence and your excitement. Your words must reach out and immediately grab and hook your prospect's attention.

From the moment your prospect says, 'Hello,' your goal is to gain your prospect's attention so that she is hungry to hear more. If you don't hook your prospects in the beginning of your conversation, they will not want to speak with you. They will say, 'I'm not interested,' and worse case, they may hang up on you.

In order to hook your prospect, ask yourself: Whom are you calling? Why should they be interested? You're looking for hot buttons, those issues that are so important to your prospect that when they come up, your prospect stops in her tracks to listen. The big point here is that when you are trying to hook someone, you have to have some sense of what's important to them.

Oh, rejecting someone is the worst part of dating! Some of us are mature and straightforward enough to tell someone plainly that we aren’t interested. Some of us…aren’t.

In a perfect world, everyone would be imbued with the capability of gracefully telling a prospective suitor “Thanks, but no thanks.” in a kind and gentle manner. But this isn’t a perfect world, and sometimes we’re forced to choose between mature and effective.

Whatever the situation is, we’ve culled together exit strategies for everyone, whether you’re an upfront person, or have a more roundabout way of dealing with things. Straightforward is better, guys! Straightforward is always better! But you do what you gotta do.........

very first time i heard this kind of word "I am not interested"...... fuck man.....!!! ..........

Any ways now used to it soo life must go on ... some time this kind of word use for avoid someone or cut the topic.....

If you are the person on the receiving end of this message, I want to remind you that finding the right person always comes with some degree of trial and error.
Try to keep perspective and not look at this as a rejection of who you are. This simply wasn’t the right relationship for you. Remember, if you are being yourself, you are not doing anything wrong.
A match not working out does not change who you are and all the great things about you. Keep moving forward. Be patient with yourself and others.
You will make the perfect match for the right person. Ultimately, by closing one door, you bring yourself one step closer to the person and the relationship that is completely right for you.
New relationships thrive on mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase but these same things often blind you to the warning signs that indicate that he or she may not be as over
the moon about you as you are about him or her.
The problem for many men and women is knowing the difference between 1) a person who is interested but trying not to be over anxious; 2) a person who is just not interested enough.
The reason why it's sometimes hard to tell the difference is because some "playing hard to get" behaviour is very similar to "not interested" behaviour.
While a person "playing hard to get" will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down.
The person "not interested" on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.