I some how fell in love with you, now i wish i could say......

"you never forget your first true love. either the scars left behind stay there forever, or your heart never beats the same way again..."

You make me sick. love sick. If only you knew everytime i see you, i speechless. breathless. whenever i have the chance to see you, i take it in an instant.
If you only knew how often i thought of you, you'd be blown away. If you knew that i compare everyone i come across to you, you'd be blushing.
But if you knew how bad you hurt my heart, and how whenever i see you i just want to break down and cry, you would feel so guilty.
That someone so "special" to you has to feel this unbearable pain. Even worse, that you're the person causing it.
If you love someone you would be willing to give up everything for them, but if they loved you back, they'd never ask you to.
When it comes to wishes and dreaming i know what i want. But what if what i want, is something i can't have? I am 110% sure that i want you.
I want you in my life so bad. and you know why? Because you make me so happy. And when i met you i felt like i had known you forever and nothing else mattered.
But then you punched out of my life, like the end of a days work. I know i want you here next to me, but thats just not gonna happen.
So why wish and dream, if we know we're just wasting our time? You only find a few people in this world. A few people who will tell you they love you and mean it with all their heart.
Dont forget those people who stood by you through it all. The special few that were there for you til the end.

i wish that i could tell her how i feel. i wish i wouldn't worry about what everyone else thinks. i wish she would just love me back. and i wish the everything would have a happy ending....but everyone has a dream...right?
i don't know what i'm gonna do... i've spent days and nights without you... it hurts me so bad to know you're not there... but you know i love you and you don't even care... i wish i could get you to see how much.... how i love looking in your eyes, and your gentle touch... but i should move on.... i know, but i just can't seem to let go
tears running down my cheeks, this isn't the way it's supposed to be. you'd think by now i'd have realized, i shouldn't need you in my life. But i do, i want you so badly i can barely breath and that's what's hurting. That's what's killing me.
I'm not angry because we broke up, i'm sad because i can't let you go. I'm happy because of the memories we made, i'm sad because i can't stop reliving them in my mind. I'm not angry at you for not loving me, i'm angry with me for still loving you. I'm not angry that i lost you, i'm sad because i once had you. I'm not angry that i can't have you, i'm sad because i know what i'm missing. I'm not angry that you've moved on, i'm sad because i can't. I'm not angry that you won't come back, i'm sad because i keep hoping you will. I'm not angry because i hate you and don't want to....I'm sad because i miss you and i love you
forget her name, forget her face, forget her smile. her warm embrace. For her when they play our song. Forget you cried the whole night long. Forget how close you two once were. Remember, she has chosen him. Forget you memorized her walk, forget the way she used to talk. Forget the things she used to say, remember she has gone away. Forget her laugh, forget his grin, forget the dimples on her chin. Forget the way she held you tight, remember she's with him tonight. Forget the times that went so fast, forget the love that now has passed. Forget she said he's never leave you. Remember he will never be you
i miss the days you held me and the days i heard your voice. i miss the days you were here. Us falling apart was not my choice. i miss the days you kissed me and the feelings we used to show, but most of all, i miss the guy i used to know.
in what seemed like one split second, i lost what i held most dear to me... at the mere blink of an eye it was all gone... so i ran after you... and held on as tight as my tiny hand could grasp. Already weak from all the torment i could not allow myself to let go. Love that once shined so bright turned dark and angry... i loved you more than i ever dreamed of loving someone. You were the last star in my big lonely sky. My only dream ever come true....but now you were gonna end up like all the rest. I tried.... i tried so hard. But my love isn't enough anymore. I will never forget you. My last star has fallen....

Life is what you make it ....

The power to succeed or fail is yours alone. You alone have the responsibility to shape your life.
Nothing and no one can deny you greatness once you understand this.

What the human being calls life refers to the material body that has "life" and its counter as death, is when the body stops working. They consider that life is learning while walking on a path that you chose by your actions until your body stops.
1- Understand yourself.
2- Understand the physical world and the very other dimensions.
3- Understand the concept of energy.
4- Understand the concept of meditation, meaning and cause of action.
5- Understand that there is Physical and NON physical.

There's no one to stop you but yourself. No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you.
More powerful then all the success slogans ever written is the realization that everyone has but one boss.
That boss is you. Picture yourself vividly as winning, and that alone will contribute immeasurably to success.

In most of the times,various kinds of happenings and experiences in our life unknowing convey a
sort of lesson/learning to us. Mostly it is not possible to avoid what we don’t want/expect.
If a person is inclined to its inner truthfulness to be inspired with not only in its practical/external/social
life but also in its emotional and spiritual life, he/she can find some meaningfulness in this life by believing/feeling the  eternity of one’s inner truthfulness. I do feel your positivity in your professional life, to some extent is contributed by your  unknowing learning from such strange and happenings.

if you have not made somebody's day happier, if you've not appreciated something good that has happened to you and if you have not felt thankful to be alive, then you have wasted that day of your life on earth

Creativity is closely associated with bipolar disorder. This condition is unique . Many famous historical figures and artists have had this. Yet they have led a full life and contributed so much to the society and world at large. See, you have a gift. People with bipolar disorder are very very sensitive. Much more than ordinary people. They are able to experience emotions in a very deep and intense way. It gives them a very different perspective of the world. It is not that they lose touch with reality. But the feelings of extreme intensity are manifested in creative things. They pour their emotions into either writing or whatever field they have chosen..

One story.... it's true..

"Ek ladka hee jo sirf paise udan , enjoy karna & show off karna wo hi uska kaam tha , means (BPL) thaa
kai bar uske daddy ne use samjaya beta " Ghar Ka business hey dhyan dee uspe use agee badna tujhe hey,
but uske dimag me kya tha kisi ko nahi pata tha, wo bus apne man ki sunta tha , bus wo enjoy karna jata tha,
but kehte hey na kabhi na kabhi kahi na kahi kisi ke liye koi hota hey wese usko bhi koi milgayee usi masti ke darmiyan,
but wo dar ta tha use bol ne se ki i love u... lekin usne ek bar use bolause i love u. wo bhi ek ajee b tari ke se ...
usne gharpe use bula an suru kiya, sab se milana suru kiya, us ladki ko koi dekhe ya koi kuch kahe use wo marta , fight karta,
but suddenly some thing happen in his life very bad jo nahi hona chahey tha .... ek bar uske hi samne wo use chod ke chali gayee.... es duniya se ....
wo pura depress hogaya , apne aap ko uske liye doshi man ne laga, 2 time use ne suicide kar ne ka try kiya,
but wo bach gaya ... use yaad aye wo word jo usne kahe the use " my dear, life is must go on .... kuch esa kar jise tujh par tere daddy ko proud hoo"...
aur usne puri life change ki .... daddy ke saath jane laga wo business me mind ko divert karne laga
aur har ek dosto ko help karne laga chahey wo kisi type ki kyu naa ho.... ek bar suddenly wo chala gay out of country ....
waha jake wo study karne laga aur enjoy bhi (drink and playing guitar, and write notes, )... but wo bhula nahi tha use aur uske wo words ko aur life ko badal ne me laga gaya ,
pura pura din ,, puri puri raat wo bus job , dollar and drink ye 3 things ke piche wo bhagta raha aur, usne apni life ko aur apne aap ko badal diya tha,
log kahene lage yarr yee pehle wala wo hi full of enjoy kane wala aur show off karne wala who ye ladaka hey ya koi aur,
uske family wale bhi shock ho gaye... uske ye badlav ko dekh kar... aab uske pas out of country me ghar hey , 2 store hai, and life ko ek professional and enjoyment level pe jita hey,,
but uske life me wo nahi hey jo pehle tha , but kisi ne use badda l diya ... mera ek hi kehna hey " life me kisi ke kehne se bahut kam log hote hey jo badal jate hey..."
life ek esi ceez hey jo hume 2 rast dikhati hey ek sahi aur galat wo hume chun na hey kon se pe hum jaye,
life woo hey jise tum jese chaho wese jee sak te ho , jese bana na chaho bana sak te ho ... ek pot maker hot hey jo apne hi hatho se achee pot banata hey aur bure bhi bana sak ta hey to fir samjalo aap bhi ek pot maker ho aur life ek pot hey ... so life is what u make it of?

Life is too short, Don’t ever waste it.
Life is sweet, Take time to taste it.
Life is a journey, Find the right path.
Life is entertaining, Don’t be afraid to laugh.
Life is for good times, Make them last.
Life has it’s bad times, Put them in your past.
Life is chance, Make sure to take it.
But most importantly - Life is what you make it.

When a new day begins, dare to smile gratefully.

When there is darkness, dare to be the first to shine a light.

When there is injustice, dare to be the first to condemn it.

When something seems difficult, dare to do it anyway.

When life seems to beat you down, dare to fight back.

When there seems to be no hope, dare to find some.

When you’re feeling tired, dare to keep going.

When times are tough, dare to be tougher.

When love hurts you, dare to love again.

When someone is hurting, dare to help them heal.

When another is lost, dare to help them find the way.

When a friend falls, dare to be the first to extend a hand.

When you cross paths with another, dare to make them smile.

When you feel great, dare to help someone else feel great too.

When the day has ended, dare to feel as you’ve done your best.

Dare to be the best you can –

I am not interested....!!!

Certainly you can try to recover from that 'I'm not interested’ response. You can ask, 'Why do you say that?' (Say this gently, as though you are confused and really, really want the answer.) You can repeat back: 'Not interested?' (Again, say this gently, as though you are confused.) This sometimes gets people to start talking and explain themselves. Bottom line, however, if everyone that you speak with says, 'I'm not interested,' you're not saying anything interesting.

If you have a compelling script with stellar delivery, you will hardly ever hear the words, 'I'm not interested.' That's because you will actually be saying something interesting!

On the telephone, you have approximately 10-20 seconds to grab your prospect's attention - and if you do not do that, your call is probably over. 10-20 seconds is not a lot of time. You are not going to convey a lot of information in 10-20 seconds. Instead, what you'll convey is your energy, your confidence and your excitement. Your words must reach out and immediately grab and hook your prospect's attention.

From the moment your prospect says, 'Hello,' your goal is to gain your prospect's attention so that she is hungry to hear more. If you don't hook your prospects in the beginning of your conversation, they will not want to speak with you. They will say, 'I'm not interested,' and worse case, they may hang up on you.

In order to hook your prospect, ask yourself: Whom are you calling? Why should they be interested? You're looking for hot buttons, those issues that are so important to your prospect that when they come up, your prospect stops in her tracks to listen. The big point here is that when you are trying to hook someone, you have to have some sense of what's important to them.

Oh, rejecting someone is the worst part of dating! Some of us are mature and straightforward enough to tell someone plainly that we aren’t interested. Some of us…aren’t.

In a perfect world, everyone would be imbued with the capability of gracefully telling a prospective suitor “Thanks, but no thanks.” in a kind and gentle manner. But this isn’t a perfect world, and sometimes we’re forced to choose between mature and effective.

Whatever the situation is, we’ve culled together exit strategies for everyone, whether you’re an upfront person, or have a more roundabout way of dealing with things. Straightforward is better, guys! Straightforward is always better! But you do what you gotta do.........

very first time i heard this kind of word "I am not interested"...... fuck man.....!!! ..........

Any ways now used to it soo life must go on ... some time this kind of word use for avoid someone or cut the topic.....

If you are the person on the receiving end of this message, I want to remind you that finding the right person always comes with some degree of trial and error.
Try to keep perspective and not look at this as a rejection of who you are. This simply wasn’t the right relationship for you. Remember, if you are being yourself, you are not doing anything wrong.
A match not working out does not change who you are and all the great things about you. Keep moving forward. Be patient with yourself and others.
You will make the perfect match for the right person. Ultimately, by closing one door, you bring yourself one step closer to the person and the relationship that is completely right for you.
New relationships thrive on mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase but these same things often blind you to the warning signs that indicate that he or she may not be as over
the moon about you as you are about him or her.
The problem for many men and women is knowing the difference between 1) a person who is interested but trying not to be over anxious; 2) a person who is just not interested enough.
The reason why it's sometimes hard to tell the difference is because some "playing hard to get" behaviour is very similar to "not interested" behaviour.
While a person "playing hard to get" will continue to be very open and approachable and available he or she will be hard to nail down.
The person "not interested" on the other hand though he or she may have been very open and approachable and available initially will suddenly seem distant and unreachable.

Life is nothing without Friendship & Love ?

Friendship........!!!!

Friendship is one of the most valuable assets that we create in our lifetime. That is why people hold friends in such high regard.
People understand the concept of friendship differently, but there is one common ground for it – it is always built on a mutual sympathy.
In some cases it is transient and finds its end eventually, while in other cases it may last for many years and grow stronger every year.
True friendship is built on trust and mutual support. Your real friend will always find time to talk and try to find solutions to the hard situations you face every day.
He/she is always there to help you and expects the same from you. Friends are psychologically comfortable with each other, and sometimes are emotionally closer than with their relatives.
You never know when you will meet a friend – you may have common interests, work or study in one field, or go through the hard situation,
which will unite you. Women are scientifically proven to seek support and sympathy in their friendship (due to higher emotionality of all females),
while men find friends with common interests and whom they may trust. Friendship between men and women can also happen,
but there are numerous hot discussions whether these relationships can be considered a friendship at all.
I guess, it is easier to make friends while you are young, or even in childhood, as there are no adult problems in life.
But of course, this is only a single opinion – each friendship differs, depending on your personality and a number of other factors.
Friendship is a very hard concept to define, but there are always feelings that go with it: sympathy and empathy,
compassion and mutual understanding, honesty and trust. It is much harder to live if you don’t have close friends.
Unfortunately, in modern complicated life it is becoming harder and harder to find your true soul mate.
But if you succeed to find one, you are really happy person.....

Over time we've developed something extraordinary,
That will last forever because we're both unordinary.
I used to think that friends were the people that you could laugh and talk to.
Now I know that, Friends will be with you every step of the way
No matter what people say
They make you happy when you are feeling down
They make you smile instead of frown.
Friends always accept your past,
Support your present
And encourage your future.
A friendship isn't an opportunity it's a sweet responsibility.

I prefer to have few true friends than having a bunch of 'fake' friends. What's 'fake' friends mean?
Fake friend is someone who will be with you during shine and leave you during rainy day.
I believe you've met some of them, don't you? Or else your life are so beautiful with all true friends around..

- Be a secret admirer of your friend.
- Treat your friends the way you want to be treated.
- Keep secrets that are told to you.
- Pay attention when your friend is talking.
- Keep your promises.
- Share things with your friend.
- Tell your friend the truth.
- Don't prove him/her wrong in public.
- Try to understand your friend.
- Pull your friend away from making mistakes.
- Try to teach & learn good things.
- Stick up for your friend.

Love .....!!!

Life is nothing without love; love is nothing without hope; hope is knowing you'll be there every day.
Love is so mush beautiful word on this planet and has so much importance in human beings lives.
You can see love not only in humans but also in birds, animals and fishes.
Without love animals and people become sad and can’t do their daily routine work properly.
Love is not only for young lovers and couples but love is a feeling for parents, children, brothers and sister.
To care for someone and to protect someone from difficulties is also a kind of love.
There is no restriction of love for any age group and anybody can express this feeling without any restriction.
Expressions of love are not limited to youngsters but old, teens and couples can also express their love feelings to their loved ones.
Love is not a feeling that is expressed by saying something to others but this feeling can be felt by anyone.

Well, it seems to me that the best relationships–the ones that last– are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is…suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.
A kiss upon the hand of someone you truly love, is more beautiful, and more valuable than any diamond or gem could ever be
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.

Love has,
….No cast,
….No face,
….No selfishness,
….No religion,
But Love has,
Care ?
Passion ?
Innocence ?
Bravery ?
&
Love has the Magic ?


For every beauty..
..there is an eye somewhere to see it.
For every truth..
..there is an ear somewhere to hear it.
For every love..
..there is a heart somewhere to receive it..!!!

You were my strength when I was weak,
You were my voice when I couldn’t speak,
You were my eyes when I couldn’t see,
You saw the best there was in me,
Lifted me up when I couldn’t reach,
You gave me faith bcoz you believed,
I’m everything I am, Because you loved me

I fell in love with you once . . .
And while I couldn’t let you know immediately
Eventually, in time, all was revealed.

They say that when you fall into love,
It can never last.

They say that true love grows, takes time,
But from the time I first fell in love with you,
My love has grown.

I know now that if I had the choice
To do it all over again.
I would, without a moment’s hesitation.

Yes, there may be regrets.
Yes, there may be disappointments.
Yes, there may be uncertainty.
But what is life without love?

And while I know you’re not perfect -
After all, who is?
And while there may be things about you which get to me,
I love you, despite them all.

And while I’m sure there may be others,
Considered more beautiful, more lovely, more charming,
There are none considered by me.

For you, my love, are the most lovely in spirit,
The most charming in personality,
The most beautiful person I have ever known -
And as such, I love you.

I said I fell in love with you once -
Well, that wasn’t exactly true.
Because every time you look me in the eye,
And smile that smile of yours,
That bubbles up from within your heart,
I find myself falling in love with you all over again.

No matter what has happened in my day,
No matter how I feel,
I find my heart opening to you all over again
No matter what has happened in the past,
No matter what may, or may not happen in the future,
I find myself in love.
After all, what is life without love?
And what is love without you?

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So that's why guys friendship and love both are very important things in our life so please don't live without it.....

How to Propose Girl.... ?

Love is said to be the greatest feeling of the world. But it really hurts when it is only one sided. For a healthy love relationship it is really very important to express your love in words. Many people fail in this, they love someone very truly but as they can't express their feelings they always face failure in love. Only loving someone is not good enough unless you tell him/her about this. But the way of telling this may change your relation to love or may break the relation also. So you must take care of this, how to say,”I Love You”.

Are you nervous on how to propose to your girl? Well, don’t be........

The one thing that you should keep in mind while proposing is that girls are very sensitive and every girl are different from the other.
So make sure that your way of proposing to the girl should be unique in your own way, and should be according to the temperament of the girl.

Some of the best ideas for proposing a girl are mentioned below. Try them out and win the heart of your lady.

- Be yourself. This is the first rule that you need to get into your mind when you think of proposing a girl. Do not overdo your proposal. Keep it simple yet special and sweet.
Be who you are, and in your own special way say those three golden words.

- Another old way of proposing is going down on your knees with a red rose in your hand. Though this is an old way of proposing, this still goes down the line and is bound to impress any girl.

- Make her feel special by taking her out for a quiet romantic dinner. Prepare well and have her favorite dishes ordered for the two of you.
Have her favorite music playing in the background and find a nice romantic moment to propose her. She will definitely be moved by the effort that you would have taken for arranging the special dinner.

- You can get a banner prepared with the word I Love You and have it displayed outside her house or in the workplace.
It is advised that you do not use her real name on the banner, but use the endearment that you generally use to call her.

- Take her to the place where you met each other for the first time. Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. It will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for lifetime.

- If it is possible for you and you can afford it, have your proposal written on the sky. You can contact the skywriting company and have it arranged when the two of you are together.

- You can make arrangement for asking your neighbors to put off their lights and have the windows lit up in the words I Love You. Take her to the balcony and open her eyes when everything is set. She will definitely love this.

- You can drive to the beach in the evening and with some romantic soft music playing. Just as the sun is going down whisper the three words that she is longing to hear in her ears. This will definitely make her melt.

- If both of you are the adventurous kinds, then you can plan an early morning trek to a nearby place, and when the sun is rising go on your knees and propose her on top of the summit.

- If you want to make it dramatic and funny, then you can have a water gun and hold it out on her and say you are under arrest, and when she is all shocked and panicky then say for stealing my heart and say out I Love You.

you can definitely win her heart. So pull up your sleeves and walk up to her and say out what you have in your heart.

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POETRY
if you are good in poetry write a sweet poem for her, record it for her and when you meet her play the record and then see her melting and then ask her
the question and even you are not that good in poetry then also a sing a beautiful and romantic song which show your feelings but i personally feel that poem is a better option
and love makes everyone a good poet so just try once may be you create a good one.

Flowers are always lovers best friends
give her a bouquet of red roses when she meets you and combine it with any other idea or send flowers at her place, starting from a single rose then just increasing the size of bouquets with Romantic note in each describing what she is to you and then the sweet promises of yours.
And then come up with one bouquet and the ring yourself and ask the question.


Plan your date
take her for a nice movie ,go for a drive .take her to a romantic dinner.
spend the whole day with her.pay attention to what she does.girls notice small things so show her small signs of your care the whole day.be gentle make that whole day special . when the sun is going to set take her to the place you both love to be at or where you met first time and ask her the question while bending on your knees.

Love Letter/Greeting:
old conventional method but still very effective write her a beautiful caligraphed ....
Write all your memories,the time you have spent together,how is she so special.dont go filmy while writing,be genuine and slowly arrive to your point. a hand made greeting card  with all these things is also a good option

If she is your very good or may be old friend then you must be having her pics
or your mutual friends might be having, collect them and then create a video of her photos,memories and all your sweet times spent together with a beautiful romantic
song in the background and pop the question at the end of the video and make her watch that video when she is with you.

if you are afraid to ask her face to face try this amazing and unique thing out.
at the night time get her doorstep covered with rose petals , beautiful candles , balloons and a teddy-bear at the center . when these things are all set. Just give her a phone call and ask her to come out of the house or may be look outside the balcony and just surprise her and ask her your magical question. you can also replace teddy bear with a ring.

Romantic Dinner:
Take her for dinner at her favorite place. Order what she likes, with beautiful music being played in the background , propose her using simple lines while giving her a ring.


Looooooooooooooooooooong Drive:
just take her to a long drive play light music in a car . long drive is one of the best way to spend time with her, laugh with her and spend quality time with her and near about at the end of  the journey you can propose her. Or what you can do during a journey just tell her what kind of girl you want and tell her that you like some one and give her the description of herself only , she will automatically understand and at the end you can propose her.

Camp Fire:
if you can go on a weekend somewhere with her and your friends or a college trip or something. spend some time with her. at some romantic location bend on your knees and ask the question or may be at the campfire or while boating when sun is setting and you and your love are in the boat..

Place with a colourful fountain:
At night take her to a garden with a fountain. cover the vicinity with heart shaped balloons and candles. fountain will add the charm in the situation and then propose the girl. From this i just want to mention that propose her at some romantic and calm place where both are alone and in a mood of romance..


But my style is different it's more romantic and touchy ........

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I propose to you my love
that eye desire to kiss you
each and every morning upon arising

I propose to you my sweet
that eye wish to feed upon you
each and every morning my Beloved

I propose to you my love
that eye desire to play with you
silentlee every night of delight

I propose to you my sweet
to honor you with all of my being
and to appreciate your way of seeing.

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The moment I opened my heart and let you in
I saw this great love starting to begin.
I opened my eyes to a vision of you
I hope, I pray your feelings are true.
I have loved and I have paid the cost
And I have felt the pain of the love I lost.
But, now, I think I have truly found
An Angel who walks upon the ground.
You go beyond all limits for me
Just to show your love endlessly.
I could search my whole life through
And never find another ‘you’.
You are so special that I wanted you to know
I truly, completely love you so...... 

What is Love ? & Relationship...

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud.
It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life.
Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.
Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence.
It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt.
The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child.
The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.
A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love.
Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person.
If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in
us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said Love all

Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending.
It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship.
The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection.
It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each
different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity.
But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless.
It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships.
The history of our world has witnessed many such events. But love is not responsible for that.
It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.

In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love.
But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love,
just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.

Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause.
It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion.
Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars.
Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture.
Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away.
We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship.
Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey.
We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.

Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need.
And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.

if u love some one so u need to tell her. u need to show her or explain her other wise u r going to lose her.....
so my funda is some people is very shy to tell for that guys need to show her or explain in diffrent way but every thing in proper way.
because every one say love have so many laguage so u need to desside wich laguage u want?


Love is indeed a complicated subject and to really come to terms with fully I think it can actually be a matter of truly knowing yourself and loving yourself first.
When you can do that, then you will be ready to love another, and you will also be able to distinguish love from other profound emotions.
So what exactly is the Meaning of Love? It can be best described as a very strong feeling that is deep down in the pit of your stomach.
You experience this feeling when you are around that special somebody or when you happen to be thinking about them.
These strong feelings can be of affection, attraction and enjoyment. In a way, it is kind of like all three of these feelings rolled up into one super emotion.
Many people feel extremely wonderful when they experience this.
When you are truly in love, you will know it. Firstly you will have a solid and honest love for yourself. This is paramount. Secondly you will feel extremely comfortable around this person, almost to the point of losing all of your inhibitions. Thirdly you will feel a strong attraction to that person and you will want to be near and close to them all the time. And lastly you will be super sensitive to their feelings, desires, and needs. When you experience all of this, you will have found true love at last.
Once you understand the Meaning of Love then you can truly harness its power. This is when you will be ready to get the most out of life and be ready to receive everything great that is coming your way. When you truly love another person then you will feel things that only a handful of people on this planet ever experience. Isn’t that a great thought? When it really comes down to it, the Meaning of Love can mean different things to different people. We all have unique romantic situations and you must work on doing what is best for you. And seriously, take heed to what I said before…you must first learn to love yourself. That is the key.
I don’t see the world the way everyone else does, the fool’s heart never does.
I see colors and sounds and dreams and hopes and fears and whispers in the dark and words that don’t need spoken and
moments that last a lifetime and eternities that scamper fleetly by. You might not see what I see but my world is as real and true
and happy and sad and joyful and painful as any part of the world you choose to accept as your reality.
No I’m not lost in my own little world, I just choose to share the way I see things with those I love, these are not lies nor am I blind.
I choose to see the REAL over the reality. I can see more in your eyes and your smile than a worldly man can see in your lifetime.
I am nothing more nor nothing less than … me....

Real relationship doesn't mean No Fight.... We fight but after that, we forgive each other.... and start loving each other more than before...!!!
True love is like dream some time ..... but if u want experiance that u need to test it some time ... so u can realize is it tru one or time pass one.!!!

LOve is being happy for the other person
when they are happy
being sad for the person
when they are sad
being together in good times
and being together in bad times
Love is the source of strength

LOve is
being honest with yourself at all times
being honest with the other person at all times
telling, listening, respecting the truth
and never pretending
Love is the source of reality

LOve is
an understanding so complete that
you feel as if you are a part
of the other person
accepting the other person
just the way they are
and not trying to change them
to be something else
Love is the source of unity

LOve is
the freedom to pursue your own desires
while sharing your experiences
with the other person
the growth of one individual alongside of
and together with the growth
of another individual
Love is the source of success

LOve is
the excitement of planning things together
the excitement of doing things together
Love is the source of the future

LOve is
the fury of the storm
the calm in the rainbow
Love is the source of passion

LOve is
giving and taking in a daily situation
being patient with each other's
needs and desires
Love is the source of sharing

LOve is
knowing that the other person
will always be with you
regardless of what happens
missing the other person when they are away
but remaining near in heart at all times
Love is the source of security

LOve is the sOurce of life.. !

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.

Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost,
sometimes unrecognized, but in the end,
always found with no regrets, forever valued
and kept treasured......

"Judgement. Just a simple word that changes us, makes us do the wrong thing, makes us make the wrong choices, and drives us apart from the ones who we love."

We were given:
Two hands to hold.
Two legs to walk.
Two eyes to see.
Two ears to listen.
But why only one heart?
Because the other was given to you for me.

If a kiss was a raindrop, I would send you a shower, if a hug was a second, I would send you an hour, if a smile was water, I would send you the sea, if you need love, I would send you me…

This line for some one "1st time i saw u i was scared 2 touch u, 1st time i touched u i was scared 2 kiss u, 1st time i kiss u i was scared to luv u, but now dat i luv u im scared 2 lose u! "

Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith
is also of little love.

What is love, Does anyone know, Is it what twinkles between our toes, Can we not see it with our own eyes, Can we not hear its whisper with our own ears,
Can we not touch it with our own skin, No we can not, Because true love comes from you... Love is the power given by God to u to bind the hearts together n even the
feeling of pain in love is unexplainable n i think who is loved or love someone always felt the sweetness of pain n i think everyone in this world should go for love its really a
feeling to be in heaven where everything is possible n the power u gain can do miracles. love is unexplainable u can feel it n it cannot be hold inside for a long n it surely spread in one or the other form.

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Love - a word so pure so beautiful. A feeling that changes you, and perhaps your whole life.

Love is all a person needs , love is all every one starve for. Are you feeling the same? have you found that special girl that makes your world worth living and whom you wanna tell that how much you love and and whom you wanna propose.


Love is the best and the most beautiful feeling in the world that cannot be seen or touched. Love, the most amazing thing that can happen with a person a word so true an expression so right. Love is what we all strive for. Love is what we all want to fall in.


So, Are you in love?

Have you found your Love? the girl/boy with whom you wanna spend your whole life.Your love whose hand is all you wanna hold and walk the thousand miles of your life. Your love whose smile is all you wanna live for, through whose eyes you wanna see your world.That girl/boy who is just enough reason to wake you up everyday with a smile on your face . Have you found that girl/boy?